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Thriving in the Boys’ Club: The Hidden Design Flaws of Work (and How Women Can Rewrite the Rules)
Linda is in yet another strategy meeting, wrapped in a cardigan that could double as a blanket.Bob is next to her in a crisp shirt, sleeves rolled up, looking perfectly comfortable and oddly energetic for a Tuesday morning. Linda is trying to focus on the numbers on the screen, but her brain is busy running a different calculation:“If I can’t feel my fingers, do my ideas still count?” Someone makes a joke about her “always being cold.” The room laughs.But here’s the thing: th
3 days ago8 min read


Confidence Is Built, Not Born: The Four Pillars That Change Everything
Confidence isn't a feeling you summon before the big presentation. It's the residue of doing the thing especially when you weren't sure you could. Most of what gets sold as confidence advice is, in fact, a sophisticated stalling mechanism. It keeps women in their heads, preparing to prepare, waiting to feel ready for a readiness that never quite arrives. There are four psychological pillars that underpin real confidence: locus of control, emotional stability, growth mindset,
Apr 1510 min read


The Negotiation Myth And How It's Costing Women $1.5 Million
Let's start with a little game. I want you to think back to the last time you received a job offer or came up for a raise. Now ask yourself: did you negotiate? Or did you smile graciously, say "that sounds great," and immediately text your best friend that you got the job - secretly relieved the awkward part was over? If it's the second one, you are not alone. You are also not weak, unambitious, or bad at your job. You are, however, part of a pattern that researchers, economi
Mar 315 min read


When Work Feels Harder Than It Should
There’s a point in many careers where things start to feel harder than they should. You’re delivering, showing up, doing everything “right”—but progress doesn’t quite match your effort. It’s easy to internalise that. But often, it’s not about capability. It’s about career friction—and once you understand it, you can start navigating your progression more strategically.
Mar 255 min read


She Did the Work. So Why Doesn't Anyone Know About It?
Women rate identical performance 33% lower than men — not because they lack confidence, but because they've been conditioned to undervalue their work since childhood. The cost? Lower pay, fewer promotions, and invisible talent. But the research is clear: when women own their wins and champion each other, careers accelerate. This International Women's Day, it's time to close the visibility gap — for yourself and for every woman around you. Because self-advocacy isn't bragging.
Mar 117 min read


Self-Trust as Your Foundational Edge: How Trusting Yourself Elevates Confidence at Work and in Life
Self-trust is the foundation of genuine confidence at work and in life. This blog explains what self-trust really is, why it matters for women’s careers, and how it shapes decisions, boundaries, and resilience. Using five pillars—keeping promises to yourself, listening when something feels off, trying new things, giving yourself credit, and deepening self-awareness—it offers concrete, realistic practices to build inner trust and show up more boldly and authentically every day
Feb 117 min read


The €20K Question: Why Your Senior Women Are One LinkedIn Message Away From Leaving (And What Actually Works to Keep Them)
It's January. The month of fresh starts, questionable gym memberships, and (if you're in HR or leadership) salary revision season. You know that special time of year when spreadsheets decide who feels valued and who starts quietly updating their LinkedIn profile at 11 PM? We ran a little poll on LinkedIn last week. A thought experiment, really: "If your senior woman asked for a €20K raise vs. an external candidate asking €20K more, who gets approved faster?" The results? 100%
Feb 47 min read


The Holiday Decision: Why Your Best Women Are Deciding Right Now (While You're Planning Your Vacation)
January sees a 22% surge in resignations. But those decisions happen in December. Why women decide to leave over holidays and how to stop it.
Dec 17, 20255 min read


Down to Rise Up: Your December Reset Before Playing Bigger in 2026
As we glide into the final weeks of December, there's a unique opportunity most ambitious women miss: the power of purposeful closure. Rather than frantically crossing off the last task on your 2025 checklist before launching into "New Year, New Me" mode on January 1st, what if you used these weeks to genuinely rest, reflect, and recalibrate?
If you're an ambitious woman, you've likely been conditioned to believe that more work equals more success. But here's what the psycho
Dec 10, 20257 min read


Look Around Your Christmas Party: The Most Expensive "Spot the Difference" Game You’ll Ever Play
Let’s be honest. We all know what’s coming. In about two weeks, you’re going to be standing in a rented event space - maybe it’s that industrial-chic spot in Amsterdam-Noord or the converted warehouse in Eindhoven - holding a glass of lukewarm Prosecco. The DJ will be playing a remix of "Last Christmas" that nobody asked for. You’ll be nodding politely while your Head of Sales explains his "revolutionary" Padel strategy for 2026. But while everyone else is focused on the bit
Dec 3, 20255 min read


The Recruiter Paradox: Why Companies Pay 30% to Hire But Won't Pay 5% to Keep
Or: How 15 Years in Recruitment Taught Us That You're All Paying for the Same Problem Twice The Math That Doesn't Add Up You just paid a recruiter €45,000 to hire a €150,000-per-year senior woman. That's 30% of her annual salary, which is a standard agency fee in the industry . The placement was smooth. The candidate started well. Everyone celebrated the new addition to the team. Twelve months later, she leaves for a competitor. Your finance team calculates the cost: recruit
Nov 19, 20255 min read


Your Comeback Playbook: How to Rebuild Your Strength When Things Get Intense
Here's the truth: work doesn't have to break you. Even when it gets ridiculously intense, even when you feel like you're barely treading water, you have more power than you think to rebuild your strength and get back to solid ground. This is your comeback playbook: the evidence-based strategies, perspective shifts, and pep talks you need when work is going sideways.
Nov 12, 202518 min read


The Absurd History of "That's What She Said"-And Why It's About to Take Over Amsterdam
Okay, real talk: "that's what she said" is the joke that literally never dies. It's survived disco, the internet, three different generations of people trying to kill it, and approximately 47,000 cringe-worthy office moments. It's basically the cockroach of comedy at this point, except somehow it keeps getting funnier . So we need to ask ourselves: how did a phrase so aggressively mediocre become so culturally unstoppable? And why is it only now * right now * that women are c
Nov 5, 20254 min read


Your Confidence Isn't Hiding. You Just Haven't Built It Yet.
Let's talk about confidence.
Not the fake-it-till-you-make-it kind. Not the "just be more assertive" advice you've heard a thousand times. We're talking about the real, science-backed, unshakeable kind that changes how you show up, speak up, and move through your career.
Here's the truth most people won't tell you: confidence isn't something you find within yourself. It's something you build. And just like building muscle or learning a new skill, there's a method to it.
Oct 29, 202513 min read


The Meeting After the Meeting: Why Your Best Female Talent Isn't Making It to Leadership
Your succession plan gets decided in hallways, not boardrooms. Why informal networks are costing you your best female leaders-and what to do about it.
Oct 22, 20255 min read
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